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Thanks for the book review Celia! I don't have either time or focus to read books lately, instead I spend short periods scrolling you tube shorts for distraction in between studying up on the laundry list of medications they have Gary on and trying to sort through the complex regulations with Medicare etc, Turns out both the business manager and the social worker at the skilled nursing facility rehab gave me completely wrong infornation about the insurance, which caused me to waste a precious couple of days expending energy in the wrong direction. Very frustrating as I do not have time or energy to spare. Spent hours yesterday straightening all that out with other agencies -hopefully it's fixed for now. I was told by one agency that it is not uncommon for nursing homes to make these kinds of mistakes. Rather concerning since said facilities are handling this stuff all the time. Gary continues to improve both cognitively and physically, but slowly. His heart is just not pumping that good so he cannot be pushed into a speedier recovery even tho he is eager and willing. The stupid insurance does NOT like to pay for long rehab tho, even if necessary, and the nursing home made it sound like they would just push him out, even if not ready- but got reassured yesterday that legally they cannot do that. Otherwise I am fairly comfortable with his care there and the physical therapists are terrific. So many things are falling apart at the same time tho I have no idea how we will manage to hold it all together, but here we still are somehow and that is truly miraculous!

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I don't keep to-read lists -- I buy a book and read it. I do seem to remember saying "I finally got around to reading --," but probably that was a book sitting on the night table way below others.

Friend called last night. I overheard the tag end of the conversation:

"B. wants to see the tall ships, so on the third of July we're going to see the smaller sailing vessels, and on the Fourth we're going to find a spot early near the Verrazano Bridge to see the big ones."

"Too patriotic for me."

"Well, maybe Mamdani will organize an anti-Israel march, and you can go to that."

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